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What is an Online Condolence Book ?

An Online Condolence Book or Online Book of Condolence is a webpage on which relatives, friends and colleagues may record their condolences after the death of a family member or after a great tragedy affects the wider community. They may also be referred to as Online Remembrance Books or Online Memory Books.

Traditionally condolence books are usually provided during  a funeral for mourners to leave their messages or maybe placed in public places for members of the general public to use. When closed, the books are usually given to the relatives of the deceased or archived. Reviewing a condolence book may help grieving relatives come to terms with the reality of their loss.

Digital or Online Condolence Books can now be placed on the Internet so people may write their thoughts on-line.

They can provide an advantage over handwritten books by removing the immediate pressure of composing a message by allowing a contributor to write their message at a time of their own choice. A further advantage over handwritten messages is that a picture may be additionally uploaded with each message. 

Our Online Condolence Books can be viewed on mobile, tablet or desktop devices and are a modern alternative to a printed book.

Messages of condolence can be added using either of the following four methods textual, audio, video or handwritten and photoed.

It is not necessary to create an account at Remembrance Book to leave a message.

Messages can also include photos or videos uploaded with the message.

Creating an Online Condolence Book requires the owner of the book to register and create an account with Remembrance Book  (this is free).

An Online Condolence Book can be edited and changed at any time only by the registered owner. Editing by anyone other than the registered owner is not allowed.

Once an Online Condolence Book is complete it can optionally be ordered as a hardcopy printed book.

See below for the list of features of our Online Condolence Books.

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To get started and create an Online Condolence Book  please click here…

 

  • Worldwide Access

    Invite friends family and colleagues located anywhere to contribute their comments and memories

  • Thoughtful reflective messages

    Enable the time needed for friends, family and colleagues to compose a fitting condolence message for your loved one.

  • Long Lasting

    Once created an online Condolence Book becomes a modern long lasting tribute to a loved one.

  • Restricted Editing

    Only the registered owner of a Condolence Book has full control to edit, add or delete its content. Site content is moderated by Remembrance Book.

  • Security

    Remembrance Book protects the security of your data with the latest encryption techniques and Secure Socket Layer (SSL) protocol.

  • Privacy

    If required a book can be made private so that it will not be publicly visible on the site. Please contact Remembrance Book to find out more.

  • Unique Web Address

    Each Condolence Book has its own web address which you can share with friends and family.

  • Printed Book

    Optionally, for additional cost after all messages have been received a hard copy printed book of the Online Condolence Book may be purchased.

  • Email Support

    Access to free help and support by email.

  • Social Media

    Share your Condolence Book on social media

  • Low Cost

    They are available in various sizes, a 20 message book is free, 40 messages costs £19.99, 80 messages £29.99, 200 messages £44.99, 500 messages £64.99 and our largest book allowing up to 1000 messages costs £99.99.

Our Latest Condolence Messages

Aysha Shaw

So sorry for your loss. Jamie was a good friend as well as a colleague — we always had a laugh in the office, even when we were in the middle of a debate. He truly lit up the office every time he was in, and was the person you’d...Read More

Aysha Shaw

So sorry for your loss. Alex was always so friendly and kind around the office — he’ll be remembered for the warmth he brought, including his much-loved and very varying hot chocolate flavours. His knowledge and passion for trees really stood out, and it was clear how much he loved...Read More

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Maria O’Donovan

Dearest Betania,   It was such a pleasure to have known you as a friend and colleague. We joined the department together in 2001. We shared so many happy and interesting times over the years, chatting about work, family, holidays and dogs! I cherished these conversations. I was privileged to...Read More

Manni Dhugga

I am so sorry to hear of Joe’s passing. Joe took me under his wing as my Supervising Civil Engineer when I joined Arup as a graduate in 2016. He was not only a manager, but also a friend, mentor, and leading example. He played a huge part in shaping...Read More

Nick Carroll

I was extremely saddened to hear of Betania’s passing. It was such a privelege to work along side her at numerous MDT meetings where her expertise and thoughtful contribution was always much appreciated.  Please accept my sincere condolences, we will all miss her very much. 

Peter Wilkinson Scarborough Business Ambassadors

My sincerest condolences to Ken’s wife and family.  Ken was a special person and a really super guy. He completely made up for my lack of educational experience. He was a star in every way possible. Recognising my business ability we drove the business and industry plan for Scarborough University...Read More

Sona

As a registrar and later as a consultant colleague, Betania was always someone I could turn to. Whenever one approached her to report or seek her opinion, she would say, ‘Let’s do it.’ She was always generous with her time and gave honest opinions. Beyond professional life, I have enjoyed...Read More

Maggie

My memories of Betania are her radiant smile, eyes alive with sparkle and her lovely sing-song accent. Sending love and light to Luisa, Guilio and the rest of her family.   For your light that remains We remember you in laughter that lingers, in quiet kindness, in warmth without words....Read More

Vijay Sujendran

It’s a pleasure to have worked with you for the past 15 years.  You were always approachable and reply to emails and called me if there is any concerns or if I had concerns.  You went over and beyond to offer high-quality care in service.  I am ever so grateful...Read More

Jim

It has been a great honour and privilege working closely with Betania over the years, both in breast dissection and then sitting together in a darkened room counting dots (HER-2 FISH). Hidden in a quiet, darkened room away from all the hustle and bustle of hospital life, sometimes with a...Read More

Tom Culleton

I was unfortunately never able to work closely with Joe, but in the few times I supported one of his projects, I was always blown away by his knowledge and keen eye for detail. He cared deeply not just about the design itself, but about making every drawing the best...Read More

Neil Shepherd

I was very saddened to learn about Joe’s death, and about his long battle with cancer. I returned to Arup Civil Engineering after a long secondment with the Channel Tunnel Rail Link Project in 2006 until my retirement in 2010. These were still the days when we all worked in...Read More

Monika

It was such a pleasure to have known YOU as a colleague and as a friend. I always cherished our fun chit chats and movie gossips when I was there and discussions on spiritual aspects of life in the last couple of years over the emails. You will be so...Read More

Lt Col Nick Moffat – Chair of Army American Football

The Army American Football Team was shocked and saddened to learn of Al’s passing.  As a new organisation, the critical establishment our safety and assurance procedures was a paramount priority, in which Al was an instrumental part.  His warm, professional and collegiate approach greatly facilitated our journey to protecting our players...Read More

Joanne Harper

Although I did not have the privilege of knowing Ken deeply, I feel truly grateful to have experienced his support during the early days of opening the UTC. At a time when so much felt new and uncertain, he was a reassuring presence, approachable, generous with his time, and guided...Read More

Jan Mackie

I was fortunate to work with Joe on the Sky landscape project when I joined the civils team as a graduate in 2021. This was a challenging time as we were all mainly working from home due to covid, but Joe was welcoming and approachable from the start. He was...Read More

Stefan

I only worked with Joe for a short time on AMS1314, but it did not take a lot of interaction to know Joe was a gentle soul. Always a pleasure to deal with, and always willing to have a chat about anything. He will be missed.

Patrick scannell

It was a pleasure to work alongside Joe. Whatever gripe or issue one had, Joe was always there to listen, discuss, and solve the issue in a calm and kind manner. His support and guidance with the ICE was invaluable. His encouragement and desire to see colleagues progress as engineers...Read More

Kieren

I first met Betania in 2010 when I was a trainee in histopathology. She was exceptionally kind, generous with her time and always supportative. She was an excellent pathologist who took the time to share her experience and knowledge with me without making me feel silly for not knowing something....Read More

George Demetriou

Joe was my go to person for civil engineering in the Data Centre sector for years. We worked together on some very challenging projects AMS13/14, TLV60, LD14. What stood out for me was his consistent calmness and positive approach. Joe was always available to help and I enjoyed working with...Read More

Sarah Humphrey

I met Joe when I joined the London Civils Team as a newly graduated engineer in 2001, and he has remained one of the few constants and biggest influences throughout my career. Reassuringly matter-of-fact in his approach, calm under pressure and with an unrivalled technical knowledge, every challenge was met...Read More

Janet Daly

I only learned that Helen had passed away when I read to the end of the new National contingency plan for West Nile Virus in England published 21 May and reached the “Tribute to Helen Roberts, Defra” at the end…I had to re-read it to believe it. Our paths crossed...Read More

Ayisha Paw

I first met Joe when I joined the Arup civils team in 2016 as a graduate. I was lucky enough to work with him on a few projects, as well as have Joe mentor me through my chartership process. Joe will be missed by so many, and the civils team...Read More

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ZayZay

With the greatest sadness I write this message.   I met Joe aka Joey aka Nuney for the first time back in 2011 when I joined the Civils team.   It didn’t take long for Joe and me to become familiar with each other. I can only echo what people...Read More

Liam Mulcahy

I had the pleasure of sitting next to Joe for a good deal of my time at Arup, I was astounded at the flurry of questions he would receive day-to-day; none of them, either big or small, seemed to make a dent and he always found time to help. Thanks...Read More

Rebecca Grant

I was not fortunate enough to have worked closely with Betania, having first arrived in the department during Covid. However, she had a reputation in the department as an excellent histopathologist, and more importantly as a kind and patient colleague and teacher. My condolences to her family and friends. It...Read More

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Simon Delves

Joe Interviewed me over 20 years ago for a job at Arup.  Fortunately for me, he saw something useful.  From day one Joe was an amazing engineer to work alongside, always supportive and available to give guidance and advice.  If i ever had a problem, he would be one of...Read More

Gordon Jackson

Although we were in the same Arup group for over 20 years, I didn’t work directly with Joe. However, I was pleased and relieved when Joe became a Supervising Civil Engineer as I had been struggling to guide the Civil team members through the Chartership process. I was shocked when...Read More

Michelle

Claire, When I transferred to B&NES, you were one of the first people to make me feel welcome. You welcomed me with open arms, endless cups of tea, hugs, your bright smile, and your positivity. You had a way of making people feel at ease and part of the team...Read More

Ashraf Sanduka

We are always thinking about you Betania. I was so deeply saddened for your loss. Thanks a million for your help and support during my training and consultant career, especially using your office while away and the welcoming home made biscuits. You were always approachable, friendly and above all smiley and...Read More

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Connor Round

Joe was probably the closest thing I had to a “work dad” when I first joined Arup. He was hard on me at times, but looking back I’m genuinely grateful for it. He had high standards and he pushed me to be sharper, more attentive, and more practical as an...Read More

Neil Hartley

Joe is one of life’s good guys and it was a real privilege to work closely with him and count him as a good friend.   Joe had an incredible depth and breadth of technical knowledge and was always willing to make time to share this with others whether working...Read More

James Chan

I have had the privilege of having Betania as a colleague and friend throughout my consultant career. She possessed a wonderful passion for her work which continued despite her declining health. She personified kindness and compassion which touched everyone in the department. My heart goes out to her family, cherish...Read More

Colin Carr

I knew Betania as a kind and knowledgeable colleague, supportive and compassionate with everone in the department. Many of the staff will have benefited from her support and kndness, She has been taken from us far too early.   I am reminded of a quiote from John Steinbeck in “East...Read More

Kayleigh

Dearest Claire, I cannot believe im having to write this message to you and that you are no longer here. I cannot believe that your bright, happy, sunny face will no longer be there when i walk in to the office and your colourful niknaks around your desk. Im so...Read More

Yeshkin Maharaj

Joe was a colleague I greatly respected and appreciated. When I moved to London, he played a big part in helping me settle in and made me feel comfortable in a new environment. He was always willing to offer support, share his knowledge, and provide thoughtful advice, and I greatly...Read More

Lina Carmona

I am deeply saddened to hear of Betania’s passing. Though we didn’t have the chance to work closely together, it is clear from everything I have heard and observed how warmly she was regarded by those around her, and the wonderful things said about her speak for themselves. My thoughts...Read More

Carlos Caldas

Betania was a great colleague, a sweet person and an outstanding professional. We collaborated and I always valued enormously her contributions. The news of her early departure from our world were received with profound sadness. My hearfelt condolences. She is already missed by all that met her.  Carlos

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Tristan McDonnell

I have only fond memories of Joe. I first met Joe on my first day at Arup in the BERTS project office in Putney, back in 1996. He taught me so much, whilst having lots of fun – especially the project Christmas parties, they were wild..   Joe and I...Read More

Charlotte Cracknell

 I am truly so sorry to hear this news. Claire was absolutely brilliant,  I am sending all my love, thoughts, and strength to her family, friends, and work colleagues at this incredibly devastating time

Steve Leahey

I was deeply saddened to hear of the passing of Ken. You were an inspirational colleague at Baker Dearing whose passion and commitment made a lasting impact on everyone fortunate enough to work alongside you. Your ability to encourage, support and bring out the best in others was truly remarkable....Read More

Gordon Hickman

I have had the honour and privilage of working with Helen since 2007 as a colleague in what is now the Animal & Plant Health Agency, and more recently in the Defra Exotic Disease Control team.  I am still coming to terms with losing a close colleague and friend and...Read More

Joy Staniforth

I remember to this day my ST1 introductory tutorial on breast pathology run by Betania – she was so welcoming and friendly. It was always lovely reviewing slides together in the calm oasis of her office, with her family photos smiling down on us, and gently chatting between cases. It...Read More

Jenna Browning

Joe was my mentor during my formative years at Arup. He always had time for me and I am so sad that we have lost him. His expertise and pragmatism, coupled with his sense of humour and always kindness, stays with me. Thinking of the team and Joe’s family and...Read More

Lauren Perrin

I have thought a lot about what to write over the last few weeks, and nothing I have come up with seems enough. Helen was a force. Incredibly intelligent, with a very quick wit and no tolerance for foolishness; in fact coining my favourite ever comeback to a particularly obtuse...Read More

Tim Rawlings

I can’t begin to describe the shock I felt when I heard. Claire was always incredibly postive, she brought life and joy to meetings. My thoughts are with her family, friends and colleagues. She impacted the lives of many and will be very sadly missed. 

Tabitha Shepherd-Jones

It’s with great sadness I write this. It was pleasure to work alongside Joe – he made an effort to speak to me when I joined the London team and always took the time to answer my problems. His support and guidance with the ICE was invaluable. In recent years...Read More

Hannah Shewan-Friend

Joe was the kind of colleague everyone hopes to work with, he was skilled, thoughtful, had a lovely sense of humour and he was unfailingly kind. He always had time to listen, to explain, and to support those around him. His engineering legacy lives on in the people he helped, passed...Read More

Aliaa Youssef

Joe – It was a real pleasure to have worked with you. Thank you for your help and your guidance and for always willing to support others. The positive impact you had on the people around you will not be forgotten. Thinking of your family and loved ones during this...Read More

Ricardo Costa

Joe it was a privilege to work with you. You were more than a line manager—you were a guide, a mentor, and a constant source of support. Your guidance shaped not only the way I work, but also how I approach challenges and opportunities. I’m truly grateful for the time,...Read More

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James Watkins

I first met Betania when we were both trainees in the department, and have very happy memories of those years! She was very kind and had an abundance of that rarest of human qualities, patience, and I always felt she was a oasis of calm in a sometimes stressful environment....Read More

Emily Fuller

Joe, you were my first ever “work dad” when I joined Arup as a young graduate, and I will always be grateful for the way you shaped the early years of my career. I had the privilege of working closely with you on projects, learning from your calm, pragmatic nature...Read More

Michael Eden

I will always remember Betania not just for her clinical excellence, but for the kindness and calm reassurance she brought to everyday moments in the department. I recall one particularly challenging case as a trainee where I was unsure how best to proceed — and Betania quietly took the time...Read More

Andrew Breed

Helen was such a bright light and so generous. Her interests and enthusiasm were infectious, and she understood science, policy and governments so well she could really make a difference. I loved every opportunity to work with her – such good humour and positivity. She will be missed so very...Read More

Simon Brimble

I was saddened and shocked to hear the news of Joe’s death.  I have very fond memories of working with Joe it was always a pleasure.  The occasional chat about cycling was also fun.  My thoughts are with Joe’s family on this day and the coming months, which will be...Read More

Larisa Zavu

Joe was one of the most knowledgeable, professional, and dedicated civil engineers I have ever had the privilege to work with. More importantly, he was an exceptional mentor and person. I learned so much from him, not only about engineering but also about how to approach challenges with patience, professionalism,...Read More

Emily Joslin

What I will forever take away from my time working with Betania was her kindness, support, and unwavering willingness to offer a helping hand. Even whilst going through some of the toughest times, you were always there to help others, including holding my hand whilst counting those FISH signals! You...Read More

Cossel

While I never worked with Joe directly, he was always available offer advice. I will fondly remember the late nights in the office where the shared comradery of the night shift team working on the widest range of projects shared advice and positive vibes to keep each other going. I will...Read More

Simon Pitman

Claire, I can’t believe you are gone, the team will never be the same without you!  I have had the pleasure of working with you for over 12 years and you have been so helpful to me personally, particularly with the Exercise Referral scheme, and I will always be thankful...Read More

B&NES Public Health Team

We were deeply saddened to hear of Claire’s passing. She was a valued and much loved colleague and her loss has been felt by so many across the local public health community. Many of us had the privilege of working with Claire for over 10 years in the B&NES Wellness Service,...Read More

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STEP 3

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STEP 4

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Now click below to create the content of the Online Condolence Book and using the activation key purchased and emailed to you in STEP 3 publish the Online Condolence Book. Once published the owner of the book can amend it at any time by logging in again and selecting EDIT CONDOLENCE BOOK from the bottom of the Online Condolence Book page.

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Online Condolence Book Pack


  • An easy to follow A5 instruction booklet and activation keycode card for a condolence book of either 40, 80, 200 or 500 messages
  • Worldwide Access – Invite friends family and colleagues located anywhere to contribute their comments and memories
  • Multimedia Content – Each message can include text, images, audio or video content.
  • Long Lasting – The Online Condolence Book is not time limited and can become a modern long lasting tribute to a loved one.
  • Unique Web Address (URL) – Each Condolence Book has its own web address (URL) which you can share with friends and family.
  • Email Support – Access to free help and support by email.
  • Social Media – Share your Condolence Book on social media.
  • Printed Book – Optionally, for additional cost after all messages have been received a hard copy printed book of the Online Condolence Book may be purchased.