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Dr Oghenekome Gbinigie (Kome)

Please record any memories, reflections, and fond moments with Kome and messages of condolences for her colleagues, friends and family that you would like to share. Feel free to upload photos.

Book Owner: Chris Butler

Book Size:  1000 Messages

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Richard Marchese Robinson

I was so deeply saddened to learn of Kome’s passing today. I remember Kome fondly from our first year at Girton College and enjoyed our conversations in the dining hall. Whilst, regrettably, we lost touch over the years, I will always recall her as a kind and friendly face. My deepest sympathies go to her close friends and family. …

Sarah Jones

Dear Kome. What a loss to the world this is   I had the pleasure of working with her on one of her research trials. Kome was always so enthusiastic, gentle, funny, passionate about her work, and just a delight to be with. I believe that I recruited more patients to this particular trial than anyone else. There was only one reason for this – simply that she was so inspirational that it made me want to do my very best for her. Despite being so clever and such a bright star, Kome was also very humble. I had such respect for her. I am so very sad for her family and friends. Kome, may you rest in peace and rise in glory. …

Nick Thomas

Kome was passionate, intelligent, and inspirational. I had the privilege to work with her through the pandemic and on her research studies before that. A truly beautiful person she will never be forgotten. …

Ash Hennessy

I was deeply shocked and saddened to hear the news of Kome today, I’m so sorry. I worked with Kome. She was one of our GP trainees, at a time. She recently came to teach our current trainees. She was the loveliest, sweetest, friendliest person and I was always so happy to see her. I would be shopping downstairs at the hospital, or wandering around and she would come over and just brighten up my day like a true ray of sunshine. It just seemed so natural in her. I will always remember Kome and how she made me feel, and do my best to be like that to others, to honor her. She was a really special person, I’m certain everyone who met her knew that.  …

Mona Koshkouei

A letter for Kome.  To think that you are no longer here to tightly clasp my hand in yours and squeeze my arm with the other in sheer elation at the smallest piece of exciting news, whether yours, mine or someone else’s, is unthinkable.   When I think of you, it is not just your academic brilliance that comes to mind, which is vast and awe-inspiring, but all the ridiculous conversations we had. Often late into the night, pushing our chairs back to face one another in the aisle between our desks. I think of how we both were always cold, sharing the free-standing radiator with the shortest possible extension cord, making us sit huddled on either side of it to trap the heat from the tiny device in our vast office. Your purple crotchet shawl firmly around your shoulders.  I chuckle at the thought of how you had the perfect ability to nap upright and how my poke would awaken you. The expression on your face when you tried Lavashak, and how when you ran out you’d ask if I had more, knowing very well that I always had a few of the wrapped sweets in my bag.  All…

Clare Goyder

It is heartbreaking that Kome has died. My thoughts every day are with her husband and family and all those who loved her. I am so deeply sorry. Kome and I were the first cohort of Wellcome Trust Doctoral Fellows, starting our DPhils at the same time and sharing an office in Gibson. I loved working by her side. Her presence uplifting and calm. We supported each other a lot in those early days. We spent time outside of work together too, I loved her company. I remember how she smiled whenever she talked about Ivie and all her family. Kome was an absolutely formidable researcher. Dedicated to primary care and always motivated to have a meaningful impact on patient care which she absolutely achieved. She was incredibly committed, hard working and determined to make the most of the opportunities available. Within a few weeks of our fellowship starting she was working out how many international conferences she could get to. I’m so glad that she had those adventures.  We never worked together clinically but she organised a peer learning group for GP colleagues and it was clear from these conversations how compassionate she was about her patients and…

Sarah Payne Riches

I had the pleasure of knowing Kome both through our time as fellow DPhil students and also as team mates in the Summertown Ladies Netball club. I will always remember Kome for her smile. Wherever and whenever we saw each other, her beaming smile was always there.  Whether it was discussing our research trials or nattering at the end of the court as GK and GS at netball training, time spent with Kome always put me in a better mood or left me with a calmer state of mind, or just with a smile myself reflecting on a kind word or funny comment. She was kind and fun and had all the best qualities of a human. She was such a super star and so accomplished but always so humble that you wouldn’t know it. She will be sorely missed by all of us who had the privilege to know her. Xx…

Chris Butler

Kome was a star that shonr pure light and grace on so many people and palces.  We miss her so much….

Chris Butler

Sam & Elaine

Your passing is utterly devastating Kome, we still can’t believe it’s actually true. Our Friday nights will never be the same again. Our chats, the excitement on your engagement to Chris and then the weekly updates on your wedding plans are remembered with fondness. We think you the kindest, loveliest, most warm, engaging and adorable soul ever, a one off and truly unique. We will never forget your beautiful smile & infectious laughter.We will miss you so so much, love and condolences to Chris and all your family, we will never forget you.Sam & Elaine (The 2 Ronnies)The Manor Surgery…

Deena

I’m deeply saddened to hear about the loss of Kome My deepest condolences to Chris and all the family & friends who loved her I first met Kome at the Manor Surgery,  From the first time I met Kome,  I loved her personality, So kind,  Gentle and a beautiful lady inside & out I will miss Kome very much,  Too young to leave this world  R.I.P Kome  Much love always ❤ 💛 💕    Deena xx…

Nicola Small

I’ve known Kome since she joined NDPCHS as an ACF in 2015 – this picture is from our 1920’s themed Department Christmas party at the Randolph in 2015.  Kome was such a lovely person, such a joy to have in the department and one of our shining stars.  I feel bereft that we have lost such a kind and talented clinical academic….

Nguyen Tran

It is very sad and hard to accept that Kome is no longer with us. I had the privilege to work with Kome over the last 1 year in 2 European-wide projects and get to know her, but all too short. We had such fun on our work trips and many ad hoc Teams calls when we needed each other’s advice. I will always remember Kome’s loving and positive nature. My deepest condolences to her family….

Ly-Mee Yu

I first met Kome when she was a DPhil student working on a feasibility study that was part of her DPhil project.  Both myself and our senior statistician, Nicola, enjoyed working with her very much.  She was hard working and always willing to learn even statistics wasn’t her cup of tea. We have worked on other projects since, her attention to details, gentleness, and especially her giggles will also stay with me.  Kome, your kindness will be remembered forever. Ly-Mee Yu…

Ola Borek

My deepest condolences to Kome’s loved ones. I am in disbelief and shock at the loss of such a wonderful, kind and inspiring person. I knew Kome from our research group on infections. She was a talented researcher who would surely continue to do lots of impactful research and help so many patients. But what I will always remember and miss most about Kome is the kind of person she was – how positive, gentle, warm and genuine she was, her big smile and sense of humour, and how much joy it was to be around her. My fondest memories are from our departmental Christmas parties and trips to the GRIN conferences. I loved that she was as keen as me to do some sightseeing (while trying not to get lost!) and she was so in awe at the pretty sights. Her presentations were always perfectly delivered and I appreciated her supportive reassurances that my presentations would/did go well. The picture is of Kome, Marta Wanat and I as we explored sunny Lund before the GRIN conference in September 2022.     I will miss her….