22nd April 2021

Dear Nigel, 

I am so saddened that you are gone. But I know you are up somewhere in the sky watching over us with a paint brush and your big grin. 

You were a giant of a human being, a true gentleman who was kind, thoughtful and caring. Behind that distinguished grey hair and spectacles bellied a most wicked sense of humour that would light up any room. 

Nigel, it was a true honour to have worked along side you for almost 20 years. You were an inspiration to all of us. Your knowledge and skills were astounding. You were respected and loved and colleagues and patients alike. 

I was truly glad that I was able to see more of you and Janet during the latter stage of your illness. It was amazing to see you continuing to paint under the microscope when clearly your illness had progressed at such speed. I felt so privileged to be shown your favourite painting collection of the stupendous Patagonian succulents.  You were the most humble man I know. 

I will always cherish our car journeys to your radiotherapy treatment. We had some good laughs as well as some more reflective moments. I remember being particularly engrossed with details of your stereotactic surgery awake and taking the longer “scenic route”  to John Radcliff. You blamed yourself for distracting me, but it was me not looking at the sat nav! Luckily we made it in time and you walked straight to your appointment. 

Nigel, you are very dearly missed. So brave and dignified until the end.

Much love, 

Anna Le