Dear Joy, may you rest in peace, your warmth in welcoming myself as one of Paul’s friends was great, your rapier wit and humour used on me and the rest of us will never be forgotten.  You made us feel welcome in your home which made it ours.  Our shared love of Cricket and discussions on Boycott, Benaud and BBC radio commentary were great, especially on how they would manage to talk about cakes all day when the cricket was rained off.  Take care and sleep well. Pat