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In Loving Memory of

Sir Ashok J. Rabheru KCVO DL

Sir Ashok J. Rabheru KCVO DL died peacefully at home surrounded by loved ones on Friday 23rd December 2022. He was aged 70.

He was born on 6th April 1952 in Morogoro, Tanzania, to parents Jivraj Lavji Rabheru and Raliat Jivraj Rabheru. He was the second youngest child out of 10 siblings, 7 brothers and 3 sisters. They belonged to the prominent Lohana community.

His father, originally from Verawal in Gujarat, India, was a respected businessman and entrepreneur in the community. He always worked hard, cared for his family and strived for a better life – all traits that were very much inherited by Sir Ashok.

Sir Ashok was sent on his own to England in 1967, aged only 15 in the hope of having better opportunities, education and fleeing the dangers caused by political unrest in Tanzania. He had no money, didn’t speak English well and didn’t know anyone except his brother, C J Rabheru. Despite these inevitable obstacles, he graduated school in Richmond upon Thames, followed by Kingston College, where he met the love of his life, Harshida. They married in the summer of 1980 in Kenya.

Sir Ashok went on to study for a BSc in Physics at University College London. He continued as an academic for several years and obtained his M Phil (advanced postgraduate degree) in Applied Mathematics, at the Royal Holloway College, and later his Post Graduate Diploma in Computing at University College London (UCL).

Ashok Rabheru started his career in the IT industry and went on to found the Genisys Group, an IT software solutions and procurement company, in 1985. Since its modest beginnings, as a small five-person company in Woking, it has grown considerably and now has offices in 3 continents and employs over 1,000 staff.

As a prominent business leader, Ashok Rabheru accompanied Tony Blair on two business delegations: one to Bangalore in 2002 and, in 2005, to Beijing and New Delhi, at the EU-China and the EU-India Summits.

Despite the demands of running a successful IT business, Ashok still found time to support various charities.

Sir Ashok was a Trustee of the Duke of Edinburgh’s Award between 2000- 2010 and was a prominent member of the steering group for planning and raising funds for the 50th anniversary of the Award in 2006.  Since 2010, he held the position of Chairman of the DoE UK and International Joint Funding Board. More recently he also worked tirelessly to assist in marking the centenary of His Royal Highness Prince Philip, The Duke of Edinburgh and particularly to celebrate everything the Founder did to champion the infinite potential of young people. Sir Ashok was assisting HRH Prince Edward, The Earl of Wessex with the launch of a three-year campaign, The Founder’s 100 Legacy Fund to raise awareness of the importance of non-formal education and learning for young people across the world, right up until his last days.

Sir Ashok was an active supporter of several charities, including Combat Stress, Debra and medical research institutions such as University College London and Imperial College together with ongoing work within the Asian community. He also took pride in supporting smaller local charities such as Heart of Bucks, Pace Centre, Wheel Power and Wexham Park neonatal unit, who cared for his family when his triplets were born prematurely. He never forgot his heritage by funding regular eye camps in Gujarat.

In recognition of his extensive charity work, in particular, his role as a Trustee of the Duke of Edinburgh’s Award he was awarded a CVO (Commander of the Victorian Order) in the 2011 New Year’s Honours List.

Ashok was also honoured with the crown appointment of Deputy Lord Lieutenant of the County of Buckinghamshire, as someone who had served the local community and had a history of public service in other fields.

As an alumnus of UCL, Sir Ashok was a dedicated advocate and supporter of UCL ever since his graduation in 1974.  As an entrepreneur, business leader, supporter of opportunities for young people and committed global citizen, he shared UCL’s ethos of making a difference both locally and internationally.  He was especially proactive in supporting UCL’s It’s All Academic Campaign in its focus on engaging and building UCL’s global community and was awarded an Honorary Fellowship from UCL in 2022.

Most significantly, in 2022, Ashok J Rabheru, was awarded the rare honour of a Knighthood in Her Majesty Queen Elizabeth II’s Platinum Jubilee Birthday Honours List. He became Knight Commander of the Royal Victorian Order in recognition of his work for The Duke of Edinburgh’s Award, which he had supported in various capacities for over twenty-five years. Having his wife and triplets with him at his investiture ceremony at Windsor Castle in October 2022 was one of the proudest moments of his life.

Sir Ashok’s story is one of defying the odds and overcoming adversity. He always worked hard and never gave up. Even when he became a successful businessman, he always had his faith and commitment to helping those less fortunate than himself. He was generous with his time, wealth and knowledge; always encouraging people to do their best. He would go to great lengths to help a friend in need.

In the rare times when he was not working, spending time with his family or helping others, he was an enthusiastic cricket and football supporter and enjoyed playing golf.

Sir Ashok Rabheru, leaves behind his beloved wife of over 40 years, Harshida and his adult triplets, Nikita, Rishi and Shayan, of whom he was immensely proud of and loved dearly.

He will be deeply missed by all who knew him. Rest in peace Sir Ashok.

A memorial service to celebrate the life and legacy of Sir Ashok’s will be held in the Spring, details will be circulated nearer the time.

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Anne Gomez

My heartfelt condolences to Lady Sheila, Rishi, Nikita and Shayan, and the wider Rabheru family. I was deeply saddened to hear of Sir Ashok’s passing.  I first met Ashok back in 2010 when I joined The Duke of Edinburgh’s International Award Foundation and feel blessed to have known him for the last 12 years.  He was truly a beautiful soul and there are so many words that can be used to describe him, but my top picks are warm, gentle, humble, thoughtful, generous and funny.  A true gentleman who will be sorely missed. Sir Ashok, you were one of a kind and the world was a better place with you in it.  May you rest in eternal peace.  …

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Helen Strilec Schatiloff

Dear Lady Sheila, Nikita, Shayan, and Rishi, A profound sadness has replaced the shock of the news; Sir Ashok had become an integral part of my life through the gentle kindness, thoughfulness and wisdom he exuded at every exchange we had.  It is a privilege to have considered him a friend and to have him as an example to carry through my life.  He is in my thoughts and prayers, as are all of you. May he rest in peace and may you have comfort in all the wonderful memories of the life you shared with him. With love, Helen…

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Surinder and Sunita Arora

Our sincere condolences to Sir Ashokbhai Rabheru’s family at this difficult time.  We are so sorry for your loss.  Sir Ashokbhai was a true gentleman.  Wishing the family peace, comfort and courage at this time of sorrow.  May he rest in peace….

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Rachel Baddeley

Dear Sheila and family I was deeply saddened to hear about the death of Sir Ashok.  I had the honour and privilege of meeting him a few times and was thrilled to be able to help arrange for him to receive his Honorary Fellowship from UCL late last year. Sir Ashok was such a gentle soul, so kind with his words and time and I know he will be deeply missed by the UCL community. Sending my very deepest condolences to you all. With best wishes Rachel…

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Duke of Edinburgh's Award

It is with very great sadness that The Duke of Edinburgh’s Award grieve the passing of Sir Ashok Rabheru, KCVO, DL. Sir Ashok began supporting our Charity in the late 1990s and continued to do so over the next 25 years, first as a Trustee then as an adviser. He was instrumental in helping us to co-ordinate a very successful appeal to mark the Award’s Fiftieth Anniversary in 2006. His advice and diplomacy helped us grow both in the UK and Internationally and many thousands of young people have benefited directly from this. His advice and that of his team at Genisys were key in refining the eDofE system, first launched in 2011, which young people use to record and review their progress through their Bronze, Silver and Gold Awards. We know that he also contributed to other charities with the same generosity and enthusiasm, in the UK and in India. Our sympathy and good wishes go to Sheila and their children….

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Tim Roberts

I was saddened to learn of Ashok’s passing and remember him with great affection. He was always a kind and generous host, a considered sounding-board and a quiet and gentle gentleman. I was delighted when Ashok’s service was recognised with the award of his KCVO and I much appreciated the humble response he sent to my letter of congratulation. My condolances to his family, of whom he was always the proudest husband and father….

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Wale Edun

I was shocked and saddened to hear of the death of Sir Ashok. I found him a kind-hearted, soft-spoken and very sincere man. I will always remember how he went out of his way to get to know me when I joined the Board of the Duke of Edinburgh’s International Award Foundation, and he was Chair of the Joint Funding Board. I have fond memories of relaxed discussions with him over lunch at his London Club, the Carlton; and it was my experience that time spent with Sir Ashok was always enriching, interesting and most worthwhile. My condolences to the family and loved ones he has left behind. May he rest in peace. Amen…

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Mr Ajay Pau

Dear Sheila, Rishi, Nikita and Shayan,   I have had the privilege of knowing Sir Ashok J Rabheru, a noble gentlemen who was a dear friend for 40 years. His kindness, gentle demeanour, hospitality were well known.   His selfless service to, The Duke of Edinburgh awards, University College, NHS Trusts and other charities are very well recognised. The establishment of and phenomenal success of the of the Genisys group in 1985, is a true reflection of his business acumen, entrepreneurship and hard work. The principles and values that he held were exemplary. His counsel to many and contribution to those less fortunate was amiable and greatly appreciated. Sir Ashok was a role model for the community and the younger generation and his work will continue to inspire many.   During these sad days of bereavement, I pray that God gives you strength and that your sorrow will be tempered by the legacy that Sir Ashok has left behind. Wishing you peace, comfort, courage, and love at this difficult time. Every life has a purpose to fill, a purpose which us humans can seldom infer but goodness belongs to heaven.   Our most sincere condolences Ajay and Nilam Pau…

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Elizabeth Higgins-Beard

To the Rabheru Family, I send my deepest condolences on behalf of The Duke of Edinburgh’s International Award USA. Sir Ashok was a mentor to me in these past four years, gifted in looking at connection points, thoughtful in sharing advice and surprising insights, and always with a decorum of the highest standard.  I am sorry not to know his family better, however can assure them that their partner and father was and continues to be much admired for his business acumen and approach to being kind, thoughtful, and having a chuckle along the way to “making rain” when fundraising. May your pain of loss soon make room for memories. We are missing him in America as we look ahead in 2023. With Sympathy, ‘Buffy’ Elizabeth Higgins-Beard The Duke of Edinburgh’s International Award USA, CEO…

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Dr Michael Spence AC, UCL

On behalf of UCL, I wanted to extend our deepest sympathies to Lady Harshida, Nikita, Rishi, Shayan, and family. Sir Ashok was a wonderfully warm, kind and knowledgeable man, and we will miss him greatly.  Sir Ashok graduated from UCL in 1974 and remained a lifelong supporter and friend of the University. His generosity and guidance contributed hugely to the success of our ‘It’s All Academic’ campaign for UCL, which raised vital funding for research, innovation and education. We were so privileged to award Sir Ashok an Honorary Fellowship of UCL, and to share such a special ceremony together earlier this year.   Sir Ashok, you will forever be a part of our community, thank you for all that you have done for UCL. The world is a better place thanks to your partnership, entrepreneurial insight, kindness and dedication to supporting others. We will miss you. Dr Michael Spence AC, UCL President and Provost  …

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Milan Ishwarlal Singala

Our sincere condolences to family of Sir Ashokbhai Rabheru. May he rest in Peace. Om Shanti Shanti. Milan Singala Box 1917 Dar es Salaam Tanzania…

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Indira Rajendra khagram

Jai Shree KrushnaSo sorry to hear about Ashokbhai. Pray God to give him param shanti and strength to the family to bear loss of beloved person of the family.🕉Shanti shanti shanti💐From Indira Rajubhai Khagram & family🙏…

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Murali

I feel extremely sad to hear the demise of Ashok Rabheru, he has been a very good friend. It is irreparable loss not only to his family, to all the friends too. Please accept our deepest condolences. I pray God to give the family the courage and strength to overcome this irreparable loss. May God be with you all, Om Shanthi  M Murali, Chairman, Shriram Properties Limited, Bangalore, India…

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Lindsey Ashley (Kemp)

It was with huge sadness I heard this news. Sir Ashok was a very special person who I had known for over 20 years and worked for for 10 years. I was lucky enough to spend time with him, Shelia and see the triplets when they were little. We kept in touch in the years since I changed jobs and I always valued our chats. His tireless charity work was inspirational, his pride in his family and heritage lovely to see and so I feel the world is a little less bright but his legacy will live on. My heart goes out to Shelia and the children, you are in my thoughts….

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Hitesh Rajanikat Pujara

Our sincere condolences to Sheila Mami and all the extended family members.   Ashok Uncle was highly intelligent and a brilliant personal. I met him for few occasions in Rajkot (India). Very loving and caring human. Actually he was my father’s Mama…   He achieved Great milestones in his life. He was very practical, modest and he had a great friendly personality. He will be truly missed by all those who knew him.   we pray almighty God to provide peace to depart soul. And Give Courage to family members to bear this shock.   Hitesh, S/o Rajanikant Jethalal Pujara (Gujarat – India) +91 9824002814 pujarahitesh@hotmail.com…