Barely a year ago it was your family consoling me over the death of my mum, and today it’s me writing a tribute in honour of your life (a life well lived).I am struggling with referring to you in the past tense because for over forty years you considered me a part of your family.I will miss you but I cherish the moments we had.To daddy (your husband) and to my friends, Chibuike, Nneoma, Ngozi, Wawam, and Kachi, I say heaven gained a star.May God Almighty be your strength as you embark on this unenviable journey of moving on without Mama.Trust me it won’t be easy. I speak from my experience.  There will be lonely nights and days.Let the lovely moments be your solace.Adieu Mama and say hello to my mom.Fatima Rubi