Book of Remembrance of

Dave Perkins

Mr Dave Perkins (1943 - 2022)

Mr Perkins began his QEH journey in 1968 as a German teacher, and in later years a Rugby Coach. He has been a part of the QEH community for 54 years and influenced so many of our students and alumni in those years. We thank him for his dedication to teaching and supporting all students. He will be missed by the entire QEH community.

We are aware of the countless fond memories many of you will hold of this legendary man, and we encourage you to share some of them in this book. 

Book Owner: Abi Purvis
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Will Titcomb

Simply the most influential male in my life aside from my father.  He rang my father before I started at QEH after the West Germany – France World Cup Semi-Final in 1982 to encourage me to take German when I joined QEH. What a pivotal decision that turned out to be, as I found myself under his legendary tutelage for 5 years. A man of incredible intensity, intelligence, humour, personality and kindness – you would run through a wall for him if he asked you. Later in life my father and he became good friends, sharing trips to Germany, France and South Africa. He also helped and encouraged me through my radical career change three years ago – to become a German teacher.  Sleep well, Chin, you absolute legend. …

Greg Hardy

JDP was the sort of teacher they make Hollywood movies about! A wonderful and inspirational character. He made me; one of the worst rugby players love the game to this day. Having learnt the ‘Big 6’ (6 pages of German grammar) inside out in a term, we just chatted away in German about anything and everything for the next 2 years and most of us got an A at O-level.  Very sorry to hear of his death, the world needs more JDP’s. …

Rowan Kitt, Fellow of Queens' College, Cambridge

Dave was a renowned captain of the Queens’ College 1st XV in the mid-1960s. He led them to League and Cuppers competition glory, playing alongside the imperious Mike Gibson of Ireland (now an Honorary Fellow of Queens’). Dave attended the Night with the British & Irish Lions at Queens’ in 2016 and gave a short account of their greatest win in the Cuppers Final. He upstaged both Mike Gibson and Jamie Roberts (two great Queens’ centres) in the process! He was a super guy and is much-missed here. Rowan Kitt Fellow Patron of QCRFC …

Andrew Tunstall

I was very sad to hear that Mr Perkins had passed away. He was an inspiration to me at QEH and gave me a lifelong love of rugby and languages, which I don’t think I would have developed without his guidance. They say that rugby is the game played in heaven, so no doubt he’s up there coaching the 1st XV! Rest in Peace. …

Paul Hutchinson

Chin was my form teacher for the 4th and 5th year (1992-1994) and obviously my German teacher too. I will never forget how, on GCSE results day, as my form tutor he said “I was very surprised at your German result Paul” – I’d received an A* much to his disbelief! JDP made me realise that a firm and disciplined teacher worked wonders for bringing out the best in people and my memories of him are nothing but fond… the absolute joy of rocking up to school and being able to watch TV in the form room before registration (The Big Breakfast was trash TV but it was TV none the less). RIP JDP – a man I only knew for 2 years but who is solely responsible for bringing me to a fantastic level of German. Thank you for everything. …

Helen & Roger Hornby

A familiar and friendly face at Failand & Westbury Harriers. Always sporting a QEH jacket and bobble hat! He had time for all and on almost  every occasion he’d suggest (in jest) what rough sorts the boys were and blame the headmaster for the weather! He will be missed. …

Amanda & Miles Wring

One Saturday in Failand, I had a fabulous chat to a gentleman, we talked a while about QEH and lots of sports. Being quite new to QEH, I had no idea who this man was but I enjoyed my chat! When my son came over to me later, I said who’s that man with the yellow bobble hat on? My son’s reply was oh mum that’s Mr Perkins “he’s the QEH legend”!  RIP Mr Perkins, thanks for our lovely chat.  …

Stuart Cleak

Kinn as you used to refer to yourself. It never ceased to amaze me how you could open the door to a room and start the lesson immediately. Learning German was fun and yet you still controlled the classroom. Those bits of chalk landing on someone’s desk when they weren’t concentrating were unerringly accurate. Most of all you always made time whatever the issue – an inspiration on the sidelines to everyone playing you brought huge amounts of joy to rugby matches even when playing on a typical Failand afternoon. Thanks for everything – even to this day I can remember the definite and indefinite articles in German !!  …

Gary Miller

Mr. Perkins was a huge inspiration for me in many ways . As a German teacher he was amazing . I remember the first lesson where he only spoke German. Das ist die tur. Der Die Das . Burned into my memory. As a rugby coach he would take me to the gym at lunchtime with Richard Dealer where they would help me with scrum half techniques. As a moral compass I remember him being furious with some weekend football hooligans . He lectured us for 30 mins on what not to do . What an incredible guy. I am lucky to have had him in my life. Forever grateful.  …

Ashley Pharoah

I was never taught in the classroom by Dave and yet he was one of the most influential teachers I ever had. There was this one time when I was captain of the First XV and we were playing Clifton College at our place. I was desperate to win and came up with some line-out calls that were designed to get the Clifton boys to give away penalties. Worked a dream! Half time whistle goes and JDP makes a beeline for me in that beige duffel coat and bobble hat. “What are you doing, Ash? “Errr. Winning, sir”. He told me that beating them by cheating wasn’t a victory and that I would regret it all my life. He was right, of course, and  I hope I’ve lived a life that reflected Dave’s sense of morality. In the second half I dropped the naughty lineout calls. We still beat them and JDP was very happy! Thank you fir everything, Dave. Let’s hope we meet again on a rainy touchline one day. …