Dear Tom – I’m glad you lived life to the full. You made time for people, you loved your family and friends fiercely – especially ‘Mrs Flower’ who you spoke about often, and clearly adored.  You made an impact wherever you went. You’d have had an agenda ready for our next catch up, which would have included lots of things that mattered and a couple of things that were purely mischief-making. You’d have made us laugh, and made us think, and we were always richer for the time we spent with you. You will be hugely missed. x