In Loving Memory of

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Sarah Elizabeth Curr

The family of Sarah Elizabeth Curr would like to invite anyone who knew her to share their happiest memories of our wonderful daughter, sister, colleague, teacher, cousin and friend.

Sarah touched the lives of so many and we hope this book will memorialise the best of her. You can contribute thoughts, memories, poems or photos (up to two can be added) until the end of April 2023, at which point we hope to have it printed and kept at the family home.
 
As we hope to keep a hard copy of the book we ask not to receive video or sound recordings.
 
Thank you in advance, any contributions will be greatly appreciated.

The Curr Family.

Book Owner: Alan Curr
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Readings

The following readings were given at Sarah’s funeral and memorial:   “Do Not Stand at my Grave and Weep” by Clare Harner Read by Alan Curr   Do not stand at my grave and weep I am not there. I do not sleep. I am a thousand winds that blow. I am the diamond glints on snow. I am the sunlight on ripened grain. I am the gentle autumn rain. When you awaken in the morning’s hush I am the swift uplifting rush Of quiet birds in circled flight. I am the soft stars that shine at night. Do not stand at my grave and cry; I am not there. I did not die.   “We Let You Go” by Ruth Burgess Read by Ralph and Iain Curr   Into the freedom of the wind and sunshine All: We let you go   Into the dance of the stars and planets All: We let you go   Into the wind’s breath and the hands of the star-maker All: We let you go   We love you, we miss you, we want you to be happy All: Go safely, go dancing, go running home   “She is Gone” by David …

Memorial Order of Service

Sarah’s Memorial Service was held on Saturday 23rd April, 2023 at Blackheath Halls.  The order of service was as follows:  Procession ”Con Te Partiro”, performed by Andrea Bocelli, chosen by Susan Curr Welcome Ralph Curr Speaker Alan Curr Reading Alan Curr to read words by Abi Nillson Speaker Kathryn Thompson & Sally Brereton Reading Iain Curr, “Celebration of a Childhood Dream” Music & Reflection “You’ve Got The Love”, performed by Florence and the Machine, as chosen by Nicky Lauterbach Speaker Rachel Carlyon Guy Speaker Alison Strange Reading Karen Fawkes to read: “She is Gone” by David Harkins Music & Reflection ”She Speaks in Colours”, by Thea Gilmore, as chosen by Helen Curr Speakers Eva Celaya & Jennifer Aghedo Final Speakers Representatives of King’s College London 1. Mary Malone 2. Jacqui Boulton 3. Joanna De Souza Last Word Rachael Gosling Departure ”Chasing Cars”, by Snow Patrol, as chosen by Tabitha Fanfarillo …

Rachael Gosling

*this is an adapted version of what was read at Sarah’s Memorial in Blackheath Halls.    Sarah was my little sister – although really only little in terms of stature in every other way she was big – big personality, big heart, big laugh … and big voice.  No-one who ever met her, from her closest friends and family, to a total stranger she stood next to in a queue, could have failed to notice how much Sarah loved to talk.   When we were kids, Dad would sometimes take us running in the early morning around the streets of Hong Kong. I can’t remember what prompted this madness, but I do remember that Sarah would chat the entire time. From closing the front door to opening it again, she would talk continuously – almost without breathing. And this is a talent she never lost. A few years ago I read an article about the benefits of cold water swimming, so she and I got into the habit of taking a dip in the lido a couple of times a week. I would let her know when I was on my way and as I’d pull up, she’d be …

Alan Curr

*The below is an adapted version of what was read at Sarah’s Memorial Service in Blackheath.  Sarah had a gift for making people feel at ease, and of course to make us all laugh, so while we may remember her with a few tears, I really hope that we can remember her with smiles and laughter as well.  Reading through the entries in this book, a clear pattern of themes emerged, and here are some of the words which came out.  Sarah was, in no particular order: Loud, Funny, Energetic, Mischievous, Loyal, Caring, Talkative, Committed and Inspirational.  One that I would add to that list is; playful. As her youngest sibling Sarah always made time to play when I was small. She would create games, make up stories, write poems and draw funny cartoons to keep me amused, she also taught me how to swim – something she was very proud of! That playfulness stayed with her throughout her life and it’s been so great to see again since she became an Auntie to Gwen, Aaron, Alex, Kit and Mayu.  She was a Godmother to Arthur & Indy, Raphey, Arabella & Teddy, and Bjorn, who shares her birthday. The …

Iain Curr

Celebration of a Childhood Dream, by Iain Curr Twenty four years since their last show Never a question that we had to go My childhood has returned to me We’ve paid our dues and we’ve paid our fees.   Underground summer air and hair still long We are off to listen to our favourite songs A different time, without a friend of foe Thinking back to the times before.   Walking down an open road 60,000 with just one place to go A straightforward future and a pathway that’s clear Yet to know I’d lose all that I held dear.   We take our seats and we stand and stare A lifetime of waiting it seems almost unfair There was a time when we disliked all that we could see. And did not know who we could be.   The crowd roars as we sip our overpriced beer Our teenage dreams have taken us here A broken heart and a jobless time Slow to learn life could be so unkind.   The words pour out of us as we start to sing Each word follows the next like tonic and gin The years did pass and a change it …

Chika Curr (Mizuiwa)

Dear Sue, Ralph, Iain, Rachael and Helen,  It is indescribable how much we are missing Sarah. When I think about her I always feel something very warm inside my heart.  Sarah was such an amazing woman with a great heart. Her smiles and laughs first come to my mind. I will cherish fond memories with her and carry her in the special place of my heart forever.  We will find her in every beautiful moment; cherry blossom in spring, bright sunshine in summer, gentle breeze in autumn, clear sky in winter, and so on.  Lots and lots of love to Sarah and I will miss her so much.  Love, Chika.  …

Amanda McNaughton

My friend  Sarah and I met at work and became good friends. Some of the things we loved about her and will never forget: Fun times Sarah was creative and her perspective was part of her charm and uniqueness , we had fun taking photos, she loved bridges and always looked up. I will be thankful to the Sri Lankan Bakery in my village and to Mr Waitrose which meant that she was catered for when visiting or picnicking. Sarah loved to travel and we enjoyed our holidays with her, we had many more planned. I will try to do these trips in your memory.   Sarah was competitive and our fond memories include playing pass the pig where her vegan principles were momentarily shelved by her competitiveness to get a “snouter”. The funniest memory was eating tapas and drinking beer in the sunshine, playing “ I went to shop and I bought…….” resulting in the funniest random answers as her friends and family can probably appreciate. Time spent with Sarah was always an adventure whether it was in the park identifying which animals we could see in the clouds, looking at flowers, going on lavender picnics, sourcing vegan …

Ron Grainger

Sarah,   I will always remember you smiling and you laughter was infectious.  A lovely person, maybe one of the most cheerful I’ve known, don’t ever change You and Kim were best of friends and we’re inseparable  For all the good times out in Devon, I will remember too, and for them I thank you  Ron …

Rachel Carlyon Guy

I knew Sarah through my friendship with Poppy and Kim.  I have always gravitated towards unique, fun people who are unafraid to take life by the horns and play.    I remember us all chatting after a few drinks and talking about how much we loved the sun and being on holiday, after I had sobered up I was sat on a plane speeding towards Tenerife. I remember looking over at Sarah my travel companion and wondering how the hell I was now going on holiday and how would we get on as we didn’t know each other well at all. I briefly pondered about what we would find to talk about and then the holiday and the whirlwind that was Sarah’s infectious personality, and irrepressible sense of fun kicked in.    My most treasured memory of this holiday was how much we talked, laughed and raised all sorts of daftness even though we had bagged a cheap deal and the tourist season had not kicked in. Sarah was very much like the sun you couldn’t help but be taken in by her presence and energy she was so full of life, mischief, and fun. I remember how we had gone …

Will Mullins

I was stunned and saddened to learn about Sarah’s passing – my thoughts are with family and friends at this difficult time.    I met Sarah 20 plus years ago back in Exeter, after I returned from university in ’99. She flatted at the time with Kim around the corner in Powderham Crescent, close to where my parents still live.    I remember so much fun and laughter over the years with Sarah and the Exeter friendship group. Memories at the Black Horse, Timepiece and one memorable late one seeing Roni Size down in Torquay’s Dance Academy club.    I’ll never forget her unique personality, social presence and dynamic energy. Rest in peace my friend.    Will. x …